Grief Hypnotherapists in Rosewell Way San Jose, CA

8 practitioners who work with grief in Rosewell Way San Jose.

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Grief isn't something that follows a neat timeline or a predictable set of stages. It's messy, it comes in waves, and it touches every part of your life. One moment you feel almost normal, and the next you're blindsided by a song on the radio or an empty chair at the dinner table.

People around you might say things like "it's been a year, you should be feeling better by now" or "they're in a better place." They mean well, but grief doesn't work on anyone else's schedule. And the pressure to "get over it" can make you feel like something is wrong with you for still hurting, which only adds to the pain.

Why grief can get stuck

For most people, grief naturally softens over time. The acute pain gradually gives way to a different kind of sadness, one that's tinged with acceptance and even gratitude for the time you had. But sometimes that natural process gets interrupted.

Grief can get stuck for many reasons: guilt about things left unsaid, trauma surrounding the loss, complicated relationships with the person who died, multiple losses close together, or simply not having the space to grieve fully. When grief gets stuck, it doesn't just stay the same. It often starts creating secondary problems like depression, anxiety, physical health issues, and difficulty engaging with life.

How hypnotherapy helps with grief

Hypnotherapy isn't about fast-forwarding through grief or bypassing the pain. It's about helping the natural healing process move forward when it's gotten blocked.

During sessions, your practitioner works with the subconscious mind to:

  • Process stuck emotions. Sometimes grief gets trapped because the feelings are too overwhelming to process consciously. In the safe, guided hypnotic state, you can access and release these emotions at a pace that feels manageable.
  • Resolve unfinished business. Many grieving people carry guilt, regret, or things they wish they'd said. Hypnotherapy can create a space for emotional resolution, not by rewriting history, but by allowing you to work through those feelings at a deeper level.
  • Reconnect with positive memories. Grief can overshadow everything, making it hard to access happy memories without them being instantly followed by pain. Hypnotherapy helps restore your ability to remember and cherish the good times.
  • Rebuild a sense of meaning. Loss can shatter your sense of purpose or safety. Hypnotherapy can help you begin constructing a new understanding of your life that honors the loss while making room for the future.

What a grief session looks like

Your first session will be largely conversational. Your practitioner will want to understand the nature of your loss, how you've been coping, what your grief looks like day-to-day, and what feels most stuck. This conversation isn't just assessment. It's the beginning of the therapeutic process.

The hypnosis portion is gentle and guided entirely at your pace. You won't be pushed into anything you're not ready for. Your practitioner might use visualization, guided imagery, or regression to help you access and process emotions that have been difficult to reach. Some sessions focus on specific memories or moments, while others work more broadly on your emotional state.

Grief work typically involves 4 to 8 sessions, though there's no fixed number. Some people find resolution faster, while others benefit from ongoing support over a longer period.

What hypnotherapy won't do

Hypnotherapy won't take away your grief, and it shouldn't. Grief is the natural response to losing someone or something important. What hypnotherapy can do is help you move through it rather than staying stuck in it.

It also won't replace grief counseling or therapy for people dealing with complicated bereavement, major depression, or trauma associated with the loss. It works best as a complement to other support, whether that's therapy, support groups, spiritual care, or the support of friends and family.

When to consider it

If your grief feels stuck, if it's been months or years and the intensity hasn't shifted, or if you're finding that grief is preventing you from engaging with the life you still have, hypnotherapy is worth considering. It offers something unique: a way to access and process the deep, subconscious layers of grief that talking alone sometimes can't reach.

The practitioners listed below are based in or around Rosewell Way San Jose, California and have indicated grief as one of their areas of focus. Some profiles are verified directly by the practitioner, while others are broader listings from public sources.

Connect with a hypnotherapist in Rosewell Way San Jose who works with grief

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Anastasia Chai
CHt
California
Anxiety ReliefGrief / LossPerformance AnxietyPhobias+4 more
I help overwhelmed students and millennial professionals to feel less anxious and more in control so they can be free to achieve the success they envision for themselves. The proven strategies I utili...
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Kim Silverman
CHt
San Jose, CA
Anger ManagementAnxiety ReliefDepressionGrief / Loss+8 more
Kim started her career in finance as a CPA and held executive positions such as Vice President and Chief Financial Officer, Corporate Controller and Director of Finance. In 2014, a traumatic event occ...
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Anastasia Chai
CHt
San Jose, CA
Anxiety ReliefGrief / LossPerformance AnxietyPhobias+5 more
Progressive Relaxation for Therapeutic Intervention Advanced Conversational Hypnosis Ericksonian Hypnosis Clinical Hypnotherapy Pediatric Hypnosis Neuro Linguistic Programming Mindfulness Reiki EFT Pr...
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Anxiety Treatment Services
Psychologist, PhD
San Jose, CA
Anger ManagementAnxiety ReliefDepressionGrief / Loss+7 more
Dr. Dufford received specialized training and experience in treating anxiety disorders at the Anxiety Treatment Center with Dr. Bourne, author of The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook. Since 1993 Dr. Duffor...
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Diane PattonGaither
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CEDS
San Jose, CA
Anger ManagementAnxiety ReliefGrief / LossOCD+1 more
I'm certified inhypnotherapyand crisis counseling.Relationship issues? Do you suffer from anxiety? Does low self-esteem get in the way for you of having the life you really want? Maybe you are seeking...
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Patrick Joseph Purcell
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Campbell, CA
Anxiety ReliefGrief / LossRelationship IssuesStress Management+1 more
This is my passion and my clients feel at ease with me quickly with my empathy and humor. I help relationship stress, anxiety, PTSD, neurodiversity, grief, recovery from child and narcissistic abuse, ...
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Yelena Alper
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, MSW, LCSW
Sunnyvale, CA
Anxiety ReliefDepressionGrief / LossRelationship Issues+2 more
I use guided imagery techniques,hypnotherapy, and other tools as appropriate.I am offering tele-therapy through video and/or phone . I offer supportive / transformative psychotherapy for a variety of ...
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Judy Passanante
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PsyD, LCSW
Palo Alto, CA
Grief / LossStress Management
I help people draw on their internal and external resources to heal themselves. No matter what life may bring-from daily anxieties to grief and loss -these transitions can be opportunities for unders...
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Anastasia Chai
CHt
California
Anxiety ReliefGrief / LossPerformance AnxietyPhobias+4 more
I help overwhelmed students and millennial professionals to feel less anxious and more in control so they can be free to achieve the success they envision for themselves. The proven strategies I utilize and teach allow clients to break limiting patterns that have held them back. In their place, my clients gain new levels of thinking and being. Reaching personal goals becomes attainable and real leading to success and fulfillment. Client Services Hypnosis for therapeutic intervention. Overcoming negative habits and unhealthy behaviors. Performance and test anxiety management. Stress management. Letting go of fears. Boosting confidence and raising self-esteem. Achieving healthy weight loss. Conquering insomnia.
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Kim Silverman
CHt
San Jose, CA
Anger ManagementAnxiety ReliefDepressionGrief / Loss+8 more
Kim started her career in finance as a CPA and held executive positions such as Vice President and Chief Financial Officer, Corporate Controller and Director of Finance. In 2014, a traumatic event occurred in Kim's life that permanently changed her course. Out of this traumatic experience, she was led and guided by her spirit guides to switch careers to help people overcome life's obstacles and challenges. Kim let go of her finance career of 30+ years to become a Life Coach and Hypnotherapist. As she has seen the tremendous impact she has had on others, she has not looked back as she enjoys serving her new purpose. She uses methods such as: Advanced Hypnosis Clinical Hypnosis QHHT Hypnosis Technique (Somnambulistic State) "Very Deep" Progressive Relaxation for Therapeutic Intervention Ericksonian Hypnosis Neuro Linguistic Programming Voice Dialogue Mindfulness Life Coaching Quantum Energy Mastery Client Services Privately with Individuals or in Groups AREAS OF EXPERTISE: Emotional & Psychological Health: Anger Fears Grief Phobias Anxiety/Stress Depression Overwhelmed Self Confidence/Insecurities Finances/Wealth: Abundance Success Prosperity Wealth Consciousness Change Views About Money Career: Find Your Passion Change Careers/Select and Ideal Career Find Confidence to Make a Change Health of Physical Body: Allergies Anxiety/Panic Attacks Stop Smoking Boost Energy in Body Ridding Pain in Body Weight Loss/Weight Management Let go of Sugar Cravings Portion Control Satiated and Reduced Appetite Relationships: Friends/Family/Significant Others Business/Co-worker Relationship Save the Marriage or Move On Strengthen the Relationship with Yourself Self-Reflection/Personal Growth: Change Unwanted Patterns, Beliefs, and Behaviors Love For Yourself/Self-Image Feeling Unworthy Procrastination Spiritual Connection: Connect to Your Higher Self or Spirit Guides Open Up Your Energetic Portals & Chakras Connect to Your Inner Wisdom/Intuition Learn How to Manage Your Energ...
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Anastasia Chai
CHt
San Jose, CA
Anxiety ReliefGrief / LossPerformance AnxietyPhobias+5 more
Progressive Relaxation for Therapeutic Intervention Advanced Conversational Hypnosis Ericksonian Hypnosis Clinical Hypnotherapy Pediatric Hypnosis Neuro Linguistic Programming Mindfulness Reiki EFT Pranic Healing Yoga Nidra Client Services Private Hypnosis Client Services: Stress Relief Anxiety Symptoms Weightloss Emotional Eating Smoking Revenge Sleep Procrastination Sleep and Insomnia Teen School Performance and Mindset Mindset and Life Coaching for adults and teens Group Workshops: Drawing Stress Away with Neurographic Art Achieving Goals with Self-Hypnosis Inner Child Journey through Hypnotic Meditation Performance Anxiety and Time Management Skills Service Area Locally in San Jose, CA, and the surrounding Bay Area Worldwide via Zoom video or audio phone calls
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Anxiety Treatment Services
Psychologist, PhD
San Jose, CA
Anger ManagementAnxiety ReliefDepressionGrief / Loss+7 more
Dr. Dufford received specialized training and experience in treating anxiety disorders at the Anxiety Treatment Center with Dr. Bourne, author of The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook. Since 1993 Dr. Dufford is director of Anxiety Treatment Services treating Generalized Anxiety, OCD, PTSD, Panic Attacks, Agoraphobia, Specific Phobias, Social Anxiety and related issues: addiction, anger, depression, Trichotillomania/Excoriation, relationships, sleep/insomnia, grief and self-esteem. He is a professional member of the California Psychological Association, Obsessive Compulsive Foundation and EMDR International Association. Dr. Dufford is certified as a Cognitive-Behavioral Therapist, Clinical Hypnotherapist, Expert in Traumatic Stress and Addictions Counselor.
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Diane PattonGaither
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CEDS
San Jose, CA
Anger ManagementAnxiety ReliefGrief / LossOCD+1 more
I'm certified inhypnotherapyand crisis counseling.Relationship issues? Do you suffer from anxiety? Does low self-esteem get in the way for you of having the life you really want? Maybe you are seeking insight into why you can't let go of past events that have impacted you. I can help. I believe strongly in the idea that everyone has the ability to heal themselves and at times may need additional support or guidance along the way. At the core of my therapeutic style, is the belief that a foundation of self awareness, mindfulness and cultivating a healthy relationship to self is where healing and wholeness begin.
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Patrick Joseph Purcell
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Campbell, CA
Anxiety ReliefGrief / LossRelationship IssuesStress Management+1 more
This is my passion and my clients feel at ease with me quickly with my empathy and humor. I help relationship stress, anxiety, PTSD, neurodiversity, grief, recovery from child and narcissistic abuse, finding their true authentic self and passion. I use client-centered Rogers, Kohut, Jung, EMDR, Beck and Ellis CBT, DBT. ACT, EFT, IFS, hypnosis. I am Christian and I also respect people with other faiths or no faith. I help therapists, interns too. I am 73 years old and I have been married for 49 years to my beautiful wife singer Christina Purcell and we did individual and couple therapy too. We wrote songs on her CD "Love's Calling."
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Yelena Alper
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, MSW, LCSW
Sunnyvale, CA
Anxiety ReliefDepressionGrief / LossRelationship Issues+2 more
I use guided imagery techniques,hypnotherapy, and other tools as appropriate.I am offering tele-therapy through video and/or phone . I offer supportive / transformative psychotherapy for a variety of issues and concerns including relationship conflicts, grief and loss, stress management, depression, anxiety, trauma, family and marriage relationships, including sexual and intimacy issues in relationship. I assist clients in finding happier and healthier ways of being in their lives, help them to enhance communication skills; promoting positive and lasting change.
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Judy Passanante
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PsyD, LCSW
Palo Alto, CA
Grief / LossStress Management
I help people draw on their internal and external resources to heal themselves. No matter what life may bring-from daily anxieties to grief and loss -these transitions can be opportunities for understanding and growth. I customize my approach for each individual in achieving his or her specific goals. I have worked successfully with couples as well as with adults of all ages using a broad range of treatment methods. I am also a certified bodyworker with a health psychology and sports medicine background who uses relaxation techniques to reduce job or family related stress.

Frequently Asked Questions

How soon after a loss should I consider hypnotherapy for grief?
There's no universal timeline. Some people seek hypnotherapy weeks after a loss, while others come years later when they realize the grief hasn't softened. In the very early stages, basic support and counseling are usually more appropriate. Most hypnotherapists suggest waiting until the initial acute shock has passed, often a few months, though there's no hard rule. If grief is significantly disrupting your daily life at any point, it's worth exploring.
Will hypnotherapy make me forget the person I lost?
Absolutely not. Hypnotherapy for grief is never about forgetting or moving on as if the loss didn't happen. It's about helping you process the pain so that your memories of the person become a source of comfort rather than overwhelming anguish. Many clients say that after hypnotherapy, they feel closer to their loved one because the grief fog lifts and the good memories become more accessible.
Can hypnotherapy help with grief that isn't about death?
Yes. Grief isn't limited to bereavement. People grieve divorces, estrangements, job losses, health changes, miscarriages, the loss of a way of life, and many other things. These losses are real, and the grief they cause is real. Hypnotherapy can help with any form of grief where you're struggling to process the loss and move forward.
I feel stuck in my grief years later. Is that normal, and can hypnotherapy help?
Getting stuck in grief, sometimes called complicated or prolonged grief, is more common than people realize. It affects an estimated 7 to 10% of bereaved people, according to research in World Psychiatry. Hypnotherapy can be particularly helpful for stuck grief because it accesses the subconscious, where unresolved emotions and unfinished processing often live. It can help complete the grief work that got interrupted or stuck.